Originally Posted By: JimKao
Mach1,

I will. I do need to let this settle for a while and take stock of her MY actions. One thing I would like to discuss with her is the agreement we had about saving money to give the boys when they turn 18. I would be curious as to how she proposes we do that now. If anything, that will be the only thing I bring up with her this weekend.


Fixed that for ya...

Look, you are raw, you are hurt, and you are angry...

Are you sure that's the best time to make life decisions ?

And I see that theme running through this thread...

The reason that I fixed that for you...??

Is that, at NO POINT....should YOU allow her, to be making YOUR decisions for you...

And one thing, should be the ONLY thing for now....


I do hope that you can see that. If not today, then maybe in the near future...