Thanks Sotto, Painter, and Maybs. My Ls told me that I could move my half, but that it would start a back and forth asset war. And that with the financial orders of protection, he couldn't do this. Well, plainly he can and did.

Anyway, not a great time.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16