For those who have limited or no contact, I promise you, the MLCer is in tremendous turmoil. I can attest to the fact that, the nights are particularly brutal for them. These are not happy people.
I am sorry to say this, but no matter how spectacular his condo/city life is, no top shelf woman is going to be attracted to who he is today. Once a quality woman discovers the decisions he has made recently, she will be smart enough to probe a bit further and then she will run. That's why they affair down. They have to do so. It's all they can attract.
I admire the fact that you are focusing on being an inspiration to your daughter. Keep going. And, so glad to hear about your scan results!! Woo hoo! What will you do to celebrate?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
