New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

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I'm not sure who, if anyone besides me, and possibly one of her very good friends knows about the A. My W has vilified any celebrity that has cheated on their spouse (Brad Pitt, Angelina, Tricia Yearwood, Tiger Woods etc.), and for her to be caught in an A would blow her act out of the water. I understand it's weapon that has a chance to backfire, but, at some point, I'm going to have to take that chance to expose and end this A.

I'll try and get more evidence, but she's very careful about it (I have to catch the messages before she deletes them from FB).

I'll work on it, and, while i want this thing to move fast, I have to understand it will probably be a long process.

Appreciate the advice, again, caring for a stranger. I hope to repay someone else down the road, maybe with a story of a good ending, but at least with some knowledge.