Hi brubeck, it hurts me to read about your sitch. I don't have much advice for you other than to continue to take the high ground and look out for your kids. Best wishes
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted