Again, thanks for the advice. Coconut, I'm not sure what to believe about her wanting the D. I feel she really wants it, but I don't have any experience in this realm, I only know my W, and, typically, when she says something, she won't back down from it.
I'm trying to come up with the best way possible. I don't have any proof besides what my eyes saw on the messages (I didn't take screenshots, wish I had now), and I realize, since I'm not friends with OM's W, it'd be hard to ensure she gets my message.
I can ensure he gets it by sending the message through my W's FB account and threaten him.
Maybe I'll threaten him and tell my wife at the same time. Let my wife know I won't stand by while this goes on, and try and force his hand too.
I'm so conflicted, I want to do what's best, and I know it's impossible to truly know what's going to help or hurt. But, I know you guys have some experience in this realm, so I'm going to listen.
sigh...
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
