New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

[Coconut]

Nutts,

Obviously we disagree on this, and that's fine, your life your choice of how best to live it. Just a couple of things I want to point out:

1. I highly doubt your WW wants to D you, I wouldn't believe that until she signs on the dotted line.

2. The OM is going to tell your W if you approach him, just make sure to think through your actions with that scenario. In no way in this world is he not going to tell her.

I hope the way your scenario plays out in your mind is the way it happens, just be prepared in case it doesn't.