I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

The one thing that I've taken from reading the posts is how the one going thru the crisis re-writes history to fit their agenda. I'm not saying that I'm the best H in the world, but I'm not chopped liver either. I'm an early rise and require less sleep than she does, so I'm always the one that gets our kids up for school and get's their lunches ready. I'm the one that brings my W coffee in bed to get her up. She and I trade household chores...she does the laundry, I grocery shop and cook (most of the time), she cleans the kitchen, I'm the one that tucks the kids into bed at night, and most of the time I tuck her into bed also.

Maybe I've bent over backwards too much in taking care of her and ignored my hopes, dreams, and needs. I don't have answers as of yet, but I just don't want to get to a place where I get upset and bitter at her. In her way of thinking we can divorce and still be good friends...I don't work that way. I'm either all in or all out.