I struggled with the EA/PA. Still do but trying to stop. It's no use. Its hurting you, whatever it was/is. That's enough. If you did something that your old W was upset about, you would stop and apologise. She is still doing whatever it is, it's enough - disrespectful. She has probably been thinking about this for a long time. Protect your finances protect you and D and DB.
Right now, counselling is a waste of time for you I fear. My W just spewed and re-wrote history. My first question was why are we here A} To separate B} To mend our marriage. There was not resounding 'B'. Ask the question. If there is no resounding 'B' you have your answer.
Surfer.
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