This journey you are on..was meant to be. I know that sounds like some pollyanna drivel..and I could be that (Pollyanna..I mean). But it is the truth. I know it deep in my soul.
If that point is accepted, then, this journey gets a whole lot easier. It eliminates the time spent on wondering why it happened. It cuts down on guilt and blame and all that those things carry with them.
That is not to say that we shouldnt spend some thought on why drives this MLC. It helps to know what could have precipitated it. But spending long amounts of your energy on all of those whys, keeps you stuck.
DB is solution based. It's about getting to where you need to be and allowing the MLCer to figure his or her own stuff out.
So, start today to embrace the idea that you are right where you are supposed to be.
Take back your power.
Begin the amazing journey of self discovery. Leave your MLCer to their stuff. It is theirs to carry.
You get to become anything you want to. How freakin awesome is that?
