I get it Cali. I was speaking with my therapist last night and she said basically said the same thing. My wife is thinking only about herself. Not me or my daughter.
We have a appointment with a marriage councilor tomorrow which is just window dressing in my eyes. She agreed just tom to say that she at least tried. It should be good entertainment at the very least.
All the 37 rules and DB'ing isn't going to save my marriage. I think my wife has been thinking about this for a long time and the new guy just set everything in motion.
I'm going to be a gentleman, DB my ass off and continue to hope.
