Quote: I'm not dishing out blame here. I'm not beating myself up (CHL). I guess I've just been mired in my recent bout of "I feel weird" crap for so long that I've been completely self-focused. I dunno...something just unblocked it and now I'm left wondering how to heal the hurt that's still there between us.
First of all, are you coming over to get rid of the iced tea I just sprayed on the monitor??? LOL
Well Sage, I think the first thing you have to do with the pain is just set it free. I guess that falls in line with the ceremony you talked about. You and your H seem to be doing great, but it sounds like you're afraid to let your guard down in case you make a mistake. It sounds like it's time to take the training wheels off the bike.