Why the f%#& are you spending YOUR IC time, talking about your wife...???
I was with my IC for about 1 1/2 hours. I spent 20 -30 minutes on my W's alcohol/drug abuse. I had to figure out how to approach her about this because it could affect my kids. My IC also helped me understand what the alcohol is doing to her and how it is effecting her when she is mixing it with the Xanax. I honestly didn't realize what type of drug Xanax is and what it could do when paired with alcohol.
M39, W36 T12, M10 S6,S2 Discovered EA 8/8 that started 7/31