Well everything is now final, no strings no unfinished business.
And it's very true as plenty of said that which was yours will come back, some of my possessions which I had almost forgotten I owned have come back. Well not them exactly but replacement one. No cost just appeared in bf life and he bought them home.
I imagine his suprise when I said" I own one. Then quickly had to explain like many other things how come I don't have it"
The odd part about xh is all these things that he's kept belong to someone else and he's hanging onto them like some odd serial killer style trophy set up. which in some ways makes me very sad for him. It's very left of normal to want things not even gifted to you. I'm sure it's his personal power trip. He seems to think it gives him control and connection the the long gone person.
As far as I know he's still with his soul mate, and I had another helpful friend forward an article about her. Which got deleted, and friends got a curt thanks but please I'm not the remotest bit interested don't bother passing along this rubbish.
Some other long term locals, aren't very accepting of bf and don't want to even acknowledge him. Bit odd in itself, but meh!
And there is the odd thing that makes you go hmmmmm, but over all things have really felt like closure to me. It's great to have it really gone and buried.
Summer is coming and I have so much planned. More events and things to do with the horses and chasing my bits that have been taken. Half the fun is actually the searching and finding. I have a couple I want to break in as one is past breaking in age and one just getting there. Have a few other stud type things happening like maybe a mare or 2 coming.
My pistol arrive and it's really super awesome, the other blokes are jealous and bf has scored better than ever with it.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26