Yeah, I thought my situation would have moved more one way or the other too. After six months I posted something like that and Cadet rewarned me about EXPECTATIONS and TIME.

You have had some good advice recently so I have nothing much to add. I will chip in if I have some useful thoughts for you.

You have come along way. Keep going.

All the best

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together