Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Si

I was thinking about your comment on bad parenting because she sits on the other side of the hall. You say you see it as controlling but you let yourself be controlled by moving yourself, why?

I agree. It did show control. But we always stood together even in bad times. Perhaps D8 and S6 might notice it less than I think. Perhaps it might be a little about me being needy if I am honest? Next time I am going to get there early and stand where they do normally if there is space. If they stand with me fine, if not, fine....silly games though. Pathetic frankly and definitely not in kids interests.

Surfer.