So I'm looking at the situation and there has been very little contact from my W in last 5 weeks. I'm trying to move on with my life and concentrate on myself (rather than look at her situation).

I know that I am unable to control or fix the M and that any hope I do have will only come about if she decides that she want to work on the M.

My issue is that whilst I'm at home, I'm lonely and the house is filled with memories. She's at her Mom's and the house is busy with several people there - How is she going to have the time and space to reflect on the situation?.... How will she miss her family, her Husband when there is no time to reflect?..


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016