I now have read and in some cases reread all of your threads. I learned some interesting stuff, got some pointers and got a frightening insight into how long my path could be. Best not think about that, hey.

Throughout your struggle even at the worst moments, your sense of humour was awesome. I may not have made it through all those threads without that!!! I smiled, smirked and sometimes laughed at your posts. You inspire me to want to be as good humoured. It undoubtedly helped you.

I have many questions but I will start with ONE. Only answer if you want to. Can you describe fully exactly where ye are at now? I am happy you are happy.

Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together