Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #5]

[ForGump]

Sara-- I never quite figured out which is better, the warm approach vs. no-more-cake-eating approach. They say do what works, but sometimes you can't tell what works, and what might seem like working for a few days doesn't mean it's working in the long run. So we all wrestle with just-not-knowing.

Journaling: a strange calm has settled into my relationship -- no, I'm not going to call it that -- into my routine w/ my W. An ever so slight increase in warmth. Likely nothing. I'm still tired of DB-ing. I'm just trying to accept the D, and just enjoy my time w/ my kids every single day, before it gets chopped in half by the D.