New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

[Altair]

Hi "Nutz"
Your W sounds very conflicted. If she asks you to dinner, go, and be your best positive self. NO R TALK!!! If she doesn't ask you, don't pursue. You still have chances to show her your changes: GALing, handsomeness, manly cool guyness. She's resentful of a lot of stuff, let it go for now. Show her the new YOU.
As you may discover, this will irritate her (why now, after I said I was leaving, etc.) that is okay. It shows she is noticing. Keep on keeping on with your changes. And don't tell her about them! Just do them.