hi SBJ
I don't need to say very much to you. Your replies have the information you will need .. BUT I just couldn't resist on reading this! grin
>> Especially when she said that there is no way she could ever be intimate with me again. <<

Don't buy into this too much. They say A LOT of things!! They have to - it 'fits their action plan'. This is not about making you feel good - this is about getting their way b/c they desperately need to.

I know it's VERY hurtful, but they really do 'verbally offload' on the spouse.
Next month, next year it could be something else .. smirk . It probably would be. Please don't harp on it - concentrate on getting through your homework & following the advice. smile

Take care, p.

pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017