I agree with Blu. Take the power back and show him that what he is doing is not acceptable. He had dragged his feet for far too long to your detriment.

You are a strong woman Cherry but he is taking advantage of your situation so you are getting more and more emotional.

Bubble wrap, boxes, sticky tape....

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')