Hey TxHubby I want to let you know how much I appreciate you posting and sharing your story with me. Your right the limbo is a mind killer and I don't want to live in it any longer than I need to. I just feel right now I can't give her the your either in this or your not right now. I called an IC and am waiting for a call back to see when I can get in. Its actually the guy we were to MC for and I really liked/connected with him. I am sure I am going to get the same advice.. I guess I am waiting because I think it will be easier to get the, "I am not in this", when she is out of the house and in her own apartment. Then it will be a lot easier to transition to NC (except about the kids). I am going to keep journaling and I want you to keep me honest.
Me:37 W:30 S10 S9 D3 M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007 Reconcile Sept 2010 Re-Married Sept 2014 BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016 W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016 W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016