Thank you eric .. I have seen your posts and catch myself nodding in agreement as you always give solid advice regardless if the person realizes it or not I think the seeds planted may be of as much benefit down the road with the "Ah-Ha" moment hopefully hits them.
I have come quite a long way, I am fortunate to have had many like you nudging and 2x4ing along the way .... then again if this were easy everyone would be doing it.
Yeah .. that's pretty much my approach, just another stpe in the process and I have been reflecting a bit on the M and have accepted this is for the best.
Thank you for that ... I think out of all this the fact I have become the father I have is what I am most proud of.