Still here and need support 2

[poschan]

Thanks SH. WAW called this morning crying that d8 was behaving badly towards her. I told WAW that we need to be gentle and have compassion and empathy towards her as we don't know what she is going through. d8 told WAW that she wants to live with me. d8 has had some of the same behaviors with me too but I try not to react to it and instead approach it with love. WAW labels her this or that and is unable to show empathy - this is a big reason for the R fail. WAW was complaining that d8 wont listen to her and that she disrespects her. WAW doesn't realize that many of these behaviors were learned from WAW herself. It makes me sad that d8 is not only dealing with all of this new reality but also still has to deal with WAW craziness.