Hi Coly, My IC is doing the same. Saying things like, look, you're not there and he's going to or is discovering that all of his unhappiness and problems have followed him, because they are within him. So let him suffer right now, because you can't fix him. She thinks this is a good time period, because H is discovering all sorts of stuff (or not) and obviously, focusing on self now is great. I would think this exactly applies to your sitch as well. I'd *try* not to worry too much about your D- she has a bf, etc, sounds like she is doing well. Thread hijacking: things are as weird as ever. Zero R talk. we instant message -- he sends funny videos and/or complains about job. He is taking me to the airport tonight (he offered). It's the twilight zone when I see the alien replicant. The alien replicant as of late comes 'round approximately once a week for a tiny bit, hugs me when leaving (but it feels empty, like I'm hugging a bunch of plastic and wires). My IC says he's in a terrible amount of pain and he's taking me to the airport because he needs to, it's for him. I have in the back of my head I'm being tested. Do you, Coly? I don't know which way is up or down. I still wonder if he's seeing anyone else/looking. In DB land, I'm doing great, because I'm being friends with H. Wish I knew what this all meant. Like you, yes, living in the "I don't love you anymore" state-- well, that's what he said many moons ago.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
