SBJ

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but I can't help that gut feeling that my wife has lost hope.

F*ck your gut feeling! DB101 – change how you look at things. Dude, if you are going to survive this ya need to start thinking a little bit more positively. I mean chit – you’re here – she is not. I think that gives you a chance. 2) You are in MC – that is also a positive. Please dude, start to have a little hope.

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Especially when she said that there is no way she could ever be intimate with me again.

Beside this statement…..what else has your wife said to you or about you…what complaints did she have about you.

What else can you tell me…are you guys still in the same house, kids….please give us some more details about YOU, your M and your current sitch.

Do you work…does she work…


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I feel that she is deflecting from her EA, but it still stings.

She just may be ….let focus on YOU though.

Are you walking around all mopy and depressed?

Do you have any hobbies?


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