New LBH with WAW/possibly WW, need help.

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I ordered the DR book (I actually ordered both of them, not realizing DR was really an updated DB until too late). I'll keep it hidden too.

And blu, thanks for the kind words, I am trying my best to follow the advice from here (and DR when i get it), and I'm starting with bettering myself. I've already lost weight (mostly from being sad and not hungry), and, while I worked out previously, I wasn't too serious about it. I'm going to try and get out more, and do things myself; I've got to do something to get her off my mind, for sure.

Again, thanks for the help everyone, it's very helpful. I'll continue to post updates as we move along. i understand this might be a long process, but our marriage is worth it to me.