Nutts, Coconut and doodler; I hope this isn't a porn flick.
LOL. Love all your names too, but come on now, no more dirty names, it's time to get serious here! :-)
Nutts,
Sorry you are here and thanks for sharing. So I actually see a lot of hope in your sitch. Why? Well I am not exactly sure, but in my own shenanigans I have learned that there is much to be said about intuition. You seem level headed, willing to look at yourself and make changes, and you appear that you will be patient and not too reactive.
I would encourage you to read all the homework links, read/post here daily, keep in mind that this process can take a LONG time, less is more--say less, do less, wait before responding to her, and take our advice! We all have been there or are there right now and we only want the best for our fellow LBS!
This is going to be nutts, but you will get to the other side and be a better man!
Welcome.
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
