Secondly, stop telling her you'll fight for the M.. She is going to draw out a D because she wants to keep you as a back up.
I'm not 100% sure she wants to draw out the D. I think she wants it soon actually. We haven't really talked specific about that part yet, but it seems she wants it sooner rather than later.
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16