Early on in my sitch you suggested I check out forever young's threads.AAt the time I did but only went back briefly. I have now read all his threads. Thanks for the tip. I will chat about my thoughts directly on his thread but fair dues to him.

I will double check but I believe he is from.your neck of the woods.

Any best wishes. Have a good weekend. When you feel like it I would like to hear how things are with you.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together