I went through the same thing with my son last year. He hated his new school. Wanted to move back to Cali. I finally relented and said if that is what you truly need to be happy then let's do it. I love you and i hate that you are miserable. Called his coach set it all up. He never left and Graduated with awesome grades:) I think they just need the reassurance that we are there for them...that we do listen and that we want them to be happy. This whole mess plus school change is extremely hard on them..be patient and db listen and validate. He has every right to feel how he does