I'm doing my own thing. Running, working, cooking and having dinner with my daughter. I only talk to my wife when its explicitly related to my daughter. Today my wife left for work and looked at me and said goodbye. I see see the pain in her eyes. Not the kind of pain that makes her want to work this out, but the realization that I'm not going to be a pushover and beg her. I'm sure her therapist has been pushing her to move on and that the divorce would make all her problems evaporate. However the therapist doesn't have to live with the wreckage left behind by the divorce. All the pain and suffering. I think this is finally becoming real to my wife. I think she thought that I would just argue an beg her into staying in the M.
