Hi Ha,
Wow, that's a lot to process. I'm glad you turned the Motherland into a spa. My love language is if you're in a MLC you're on the outs with me.

So I guess the positive is that this very proud man who almost never apologizes got through his fog enough to a. realize he'd upset you and b. said he was sorry.

Small consolation, but there it is: the silver lining.

Hugs from the East coast. xoxoxoxo dosvedanya

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver