Letting my weight down...

[sage]

Had a really lovely weekend with h. TWO RedSox games (yahoo!) and some nice downtime. Both of us had too much studying to do but as h pointed out the other day (positive #1) we really do seem to be doing a good job of merging our busy schedules.

#2 -- h initiated a conversation the other night about some stuff that's been going on for him (unrelated to me or our m) and how it has been making him pull away a bit in certain areas. Can you say TREMENDOUS act of disclosure and honesty and openness from h???? WOW. It felt really good to have him share his feelings with me so openly. He brought up the topic again yesterday and I told him that it really helped to alleviate some anxiety that I had been feeling...he shared that it helped with his anxiety level too and that he would try to keep sharing his thoughts with me even though his tendancy is to keep these sorts of things to himself.

this is such a tremendous and wonderful milestone!

3. when I got home from study group h had lunch waiting for me. I don't know...maybe this won't seem like a big deal to others but it really is such a wonderful and thoughtful gesture from him...I just love having him anticipate my arrival home and make an earnest effort to make something to please me!

Sage