W's birthday tomorrow and usually we would have gone out to eat/celebrate as a family or meet up with ILs -just as she is planning to do on Saturday but no invite for me. I would have bought some nice thoughtful gift like years before but this time I have only bought her a card; instead of signing it 'always & forever yours' I've just put 'All the best', still deliberating whether to give it to her at all.
As well as this, I go into the family bathroom this morning to find W didn’t rinse out the bath after trimming/shaving ‘downstairs’. W obviously making herself presentable for when she meets up with OM for a birthday treat over the next day or two; torture!
Ok I know this would be a very bad thing to do but hell do I want to email or text her the following...
I know you want to look presentable downstairs but can I ask that you rinse the bath out after trimming/shaving please? I don’t want to have to answer awkward questions from either of our boys.
Does your other guy know you're still sleeping half naked in my bed?
Would appreciate you not using the joint debit card when you are out seeing your other guy, thus making it obvious where you are!
At least I have a two-day course with a friend this weekend to distract me a little (GAL), might be a useful addition on my CV too.
Me 50, ExW 49 T21, M13+ S15, S13 BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY) Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts Oct-2016 W petitions for D Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed Jun-2018 D'd
