Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

I get it, I have the same issues but it's her problem, not yours. Even my kids know, when I had them on vacation in august, I gave the phone to my son to call her. She didn't answer the first or second time he tried. The third day I gave the phone to him, his response was "Why, she won't answer anyway" He tried anyway and she proved him right. I get this - totally the same. Other than saying available 8am until 8.30pm how do you deal with this. I guess just make a joke of it with the kids? I am tempted just not to call her at all and just text really limited info even if about the kids. It's total disrespect - hence WW behaviour. If anyone has any better ways of creating boundaries on this I would be keen to hear. It's not just me she does this to BTW - just all those people that don't validate her bad behaviour.