Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Si,

I know. We all back peddle, or make mistakes at times. I do it very, very rarely these days. It wasn't just the calls it was she wasn't hearing the calls as she was showering (to go out) and then was drying her hair (to go out) - I can only assume with OM. The kids did ask to speak but I am trying to get them to forget that. I also 'wanted' to speak to her in fairness - she had 'niced' me back into caring earlier and I fell for it like a sucker - oh dear, how desperate we are for love. Ha Ha. anyway, we live and learn.I am not going to fret over it.

How would you have handled it?

Surfer.