Before you reached a custody and support agreement, you seemed focused on the boys and what was good for them and getting to spend time with them.

And you got a lot of time with them.

But you don't seem at all happy about that.

Now you seem focused on the money, to the point of thinking the parent who has them one or two weekends a month should have to clothe 5 growing boys for her weekends.

Why is that?

And is that really the mental attitude you want to make important decisions from?


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16