Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

I dealt with lack of phone answering as "I am sick of your excuses re: missing calls my calls - just seen this etc" What if it's something urgent? There must have been 10 unanswered calls to you today. Try being responsible we don't stop parenting these children together properly just because you want to have other relationships. Next time I call try picking up. Or I won't bother. The calls were for the kids. They were missing you. I didn't tell them that mummy was too busy thinking of herself to even answer the phone."

Perhaps not the most controlled text but I am really starting to get frustrated with the game playing. I need to detach more. She is clearly getting to me.

Surfer.