last day for the week at work...yahoo! watching the redsox opener tomorrow instead of sitting thru meetings!

was up and down a bit yesterday...still taking the work and school stress too much to heart. Had class last night...it went pretty well.

I didn't think I'd be home to pick h up at the train so he wasn't expecting me there. funny thing was that he DIDN'T take the train home! So he got a ride home, saw that it looked like I had been there and surpised me waiting at the train station! He looked SO unbelievably happy to see me...was just brimming over!

1. so, h's enthusiam at seeing me and his VERBAL affirmations are certainly positive number 1!

2. I went to bed before he did but was still awake when he came in. The time before we fall asleep is a special time to me...we usually talk a bit. He said he was happy that I was still awake..that he loves that time, too. Then he mentioned that for a few days I had fallen asleep before him (unusual actuallY) and how much he loves listening to me sleeping. It was just a very touching and personal disclosure by h. I love that he can be open with me.

3. Got a "big date" tonight -- not sure what we're going to do..but we both seem very happy to be doing it.

Preview for tomorrow:
1. h suggested that I take his car to work so he can take mine to the car wash! Huge act of service for me!!! I love his thoughtfulness.

2. h called a while ago from school -- he had a very unsatisfying meeting there. He vented a bit. It made me feel good for a few reasons...his sharing his thoughts with me PLUS I've been in complain mode for a few days so I appreciated being the receiver not the initiator of a mini-rant!!!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.