So the other day STBX texts me and asks what time we are doing the exchange this Friday. It is Canadian Thanksgiving weekend. I told her I would be bringing the boys up since I have business there this weekend. She responded with "that's great"!

She then asks if I can pack some nice clothes for them for Thanksgiving. I said "sure". My interpretation of tough love would be to tell her to go buy her own clothes now, but I am not an a$$hole.

Should I tell her it's not my job anymore to provide for her even if it has to do with the boys?

H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...