Lots of positives over last few days...I'm working on shaking loose my sadsack attitude and that's going well.
1. Had another great interaction yesterday with h re $. We really are doing so well having these conversations! h is so considerate and thoughtful of my feelings.
2. h sat with me on the couch last night and welcomed my big time snuggling.
3. h cancelled his study group for tomorrow night and told me that he needs (!!) a date with me. The way he said NEEDS was made me feel very in demand!
****** I've come to the realization (again?) that my stressed response to work and school is a big factor in my mood and reactions and interactions with h. I really need to identify (and practice!) ways that I can reduce that stress and not bring it home with me!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.