AmyTx - I'm sure no harm was done. I haven't read back but I'm sure he knew already that you were wanting him to come home so I doubt that would have pushed him further into the tunnel. It's tough leaving them to journey alone - I know that full well myself. In my case I have had absolute silence from my W since August 26th (I just checked) and that was just with regards to our NetFlix password.
Try to stay positive and keep with the generally neutral tone. What I try to do is to come here and flush my thoughts and worries about W into journal posts just like yours above. It helps me find a spot to sweep those thoughts out of my head and into a safe place.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells