Hi Surfer, I was just reading your last few posts and I see you looking at your WW, over analysing what she is doing and trying so hard to put rational thought into an irrational situation. I get it, I understand it, I did way too much of it myself. I'm pretty sure I've seen you write it too others but it is so hard to see it ourselves.
Nothing makes sense, I have a good friend who talks to me every week to get caught up on her new favourite soap opera. She helps me bring humour to my situation because at times I don't feel you could write the stuff we see.
Even my WW, 2 weeks ago was sending me a text threatening me with legal action, this past week was texting about the woes of her vacation with a follow up text telling me she was on a train heading home albeit 1.5 days later and all is well....
I have had emails at 12.30 at night about nothing. It has taken me several months (and I still have my moments) where I would try and work out what she is doing but it was only hurting me and bringing me down. It is much healthier for me to put the humour into the situation. To see the games they play to get a reaction. The not answering your calls, to me is a game, treat it as a game, laugh at the childishness of it. Mine is doing so many things like this, it's crazy.
I only text or email, no calls. I can see if she has read it and then if she ignores it I know it's her little games. I told her not to contact me between 8pm and 8.30am or they would be ignored even if it's a text or email. She continued to send stuff during these hours but since I wouldn't respond, she organised friends to look after the kids while she went away even though I had said they would be with me and she asked to be informed if something had changed. Nothing had changed so there was nothing to answer, so rather than send me a direct question during the times I asked for she went and did something else.
