I am in the middle of reading DR and stopped contacting him weeks ago. I'll send a very short email to him next month saying I hope he's ok. I feel sorry for us all going through this, his parents are devastated too but most of all I feel desperately sorry for him.
Hello Westo,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
Keep reading DR. Please reconsider sending him the email you mentioned. It would be seen as continuing to pursue him, which you aren't if you are truly detaching.
It is going to sound like an echo around here. It is focus all of your time, effort and energy on being the best Westo.
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