You are really very new to all of this. A year or two is a very short time period to be dealing w/MLC. Yes, you do need to trust the process. Are you looking for signs that he's coming out of the crisis? If so, I hate to break it to you, but it's not going to happen any time soon. It takes years for them to process stuff. That being said, doesn't mean that they aren't working on their issues internally. Just because you don't see any changes at the moment, doesn't mean that things aren't happening within him.
Have faith, dig deeper for patience and most importantly...keep the focus on you and your family. Leave your h in God's hands.
