Detached, getting along better, but in limbo....

[Surfer]

Drumming assembly. Ha ha.

The house is joint names sadly. You have mentioned the separation agreement before. Emailed her Mediator (again), he again said not a word from her.

I need to be careful as I am getting little feelings of vindictivness in terms of wanting her to be financially struggling. I think it's the only thing she will notice TBH. I know that's. It an ideal way to think and I am not acting it out at all. Also being decent with her when on the phone etc. Nosey neighbour stuff.

Just limbo city and feel very much like she is just waiting for the old or now OM to arrive so she can move on at her pace. It's a tough one. At times I think filing for D may help. Other times I think I should put my ring back on as I am married and she might think I have given up on her. Tricky stuff eh?

Surfer.