Hi ginger, I completely see what you are saying and when I woke in the morning I wished I hadn't rung him...but as you say it's hard when something trips in someone's head and they treat you like you are nothing. I know I have no say in what he does...that's obvious by his actions...being married didn't stop him shacking up with someone else...it'll take time and of course you are right. I'm just so hurt by it all and his actions and how this has affected our whole life and the kids and how he gets to 'move on' with some new woman and some new child......I'm sure that cushions the blow of what he's done
