I don't mean to make things more difficult, I only want you to take plenty of time before making this extreme move. Give it time to see what she does after the court's decision has time to sink into her brain. She is still wayward! She can change, but so far, she hasn't. This may be the first "loss" she's ever experienced in her life, IDK. I only know that you are ready to undo the loss for her.
I couldn't agree more...
Jim, I get the feeling, that you had some expectations that this wouldn't go this far. And somewhere in the "process", she would see the error of her ways and want to come back ???
IF.....IF that was the situation...
Then maybe you have the same type of expectation, about giving up hard fought custody to her....
???
And IF that is the case...
Then you should really take some time to figure out WHY you are making that decision.....